Beaches

Who doesn’t love a scenic view of a beach? I do, but I’ve often found myself drawn to views that shared scattered rocks and boulders. Never understood why this drew me in, but it seemed to bring attention to shifting shadows and subtle changes in each moment I’d view the same scene. The stones seemed to welcome something different for me.

While watching a show I had to pause for a moment as the boulders in the beach screamed “pay attention!” There’s a lesson in this.

My mind immediately thought of the poem by Robert Frost the Road Less Traveled. The stones represented obstacles and diversions. They were scattered without rhyme or reason and yet with specific purpose. I felt like God was telling me sand beneath bare feet feels amazing, yet a small pebble in the shoe is irritating. In life diversions may get in our way, like some of the beach rocks, we can walk around them or over them. We can sit and rest upon them and sometimes build with them.

The rocks or boulders in life aren’t always meant to detour us but may actually serve purposes of protection we don’t see. The rocks at beach edge often promote sea life and invite creatures to nest, feed, and expand, something we won’t always find on sandy beaches.

As I reflected upon these prayerful thoughts, I was prompted to turn to ChatGPT to learn more scientific aspects of the differences. I’m sharing them with you as you may be just as unaware as I was.


Sandy beaches

On a sandy beach, the wave energy is spread across millions of tiny grains of sand.

  • Sand shifts easily with every wave.

  • During storms, large amounts of sand can be washed away.

  • During calmer weather, some of that sand may be carried back onto the beach.

  • Sandy beaches are constantly changing—they’re very dynamic.

The beach itself acts almost like a cushion. The sand absorbs and redistributes much of the wave’s energy.

Pebble and cobble beaches

When the shoreline is covered with pebbles and rounded stones:

  • The waves must lift and roll those rocks.

  • That movement uses a tremendous amount of energy.

  • Less wave energy reaches farther inland.

The stones themselves become a protective armor over the shoreline. You’ll often hear the loud rattling sound as waves pull the stones back—that sound is literally rocks absorbing energy.

Boulder shorelines

Large boulders have an even greater effect.

They:

  • Break incoming waves into smaller currents.

  • Create turbulence that dissipates wave energy.

  • Slow water before it reaches the land behind them.

  • Help protect cliffs or soil from direct erosion.

Instead of one powerful wave hitting the shoreline, the wave is broken into dozens of smaller currents flowing around the rocks.

A sandy beach is like a pillow—it deforms and moves with the force.

  • A rocky beach is like many padded blocks—each rock takes part of the impact, so no single point receives the full force

In engineering, this is why riprap (large rocks placed along shorelines) is commonly used to protect coasts, riverbanks, and dams. Rather than trying to stop the water completely—which often fails—it breaks up the water’s energy and lets it pass through in a controlled way

Food for thought and introspect that will make me see each beach different now.

Sometimes what feels like a deterrent is for my protection and offering lessons unawares needed. Our Lord will make a way when we think there is no way. sometimes the path is smooth like sand or path straight, other times I rock or two, maybe even a mountain get in our way forcing us to look at our options.


God only knows the depths of Love

Thank you, Lord,

for everyone I’ve loved

and

Thank you for those that hurt me.

Because of them,

I’m finding my strength in YOU

Thank you for every joy

And every pain

For in every wound,

Healings gained

Thank you for

Arms that held me tight,

And rejection walking

Out after a night

Thank you for a love

So sure

Your TRUTH prevails

I am secure

Thank you for

What was misunderstood

Because in the gaps,

YOU always stood

Thank you, Lord,

That YOU can see

Every hurt and meet

Every need

Thank you, Lord,

For each seed you sow,

That plants my feet

And feeds my soul

Loving you beyond the Ending

When I say I love you, doesn’t mean everything was perfect. Doesn’t mean there weren’t hurts and heartbreaks. It doesn’t mean I’ve denied what happened or pretended it’s all okay.

When I say I love you, it means that beyond every wrong, hurt or harm, I never stopped believing in you or for you. It means I’ve forgiven you for things intentionally or even unknowingly done. It means I’m recognizing my part too, knowing I’m not the easiest to love either. And yes, I’m forgiving my part in failing the relationship and situation that contributed to the ending of it.

Saying I love you after the ending, doesn’t mean I’m still holding on, not moving forward, or begging you to return, but that I recognize the value you contributed to my life and how incredibly thankful I am for that experience.

When I say I love you, it means I’ll always wish you well and pray for your future wellbeing and happiness. My love for you goes beyond myself and selfish needs, knowing you deserve blessings as much as I do.

Knowing I will always love you gives me the space to acknowledge my heart has the ability to grow stronger and expand beyond any one situation. While giving myself permission to know it’s okay to love in spite of the aches and breaks we sometimes feel.

Loving you tells me I was alive and better yet, I AM LIVING with a new zest for life because I’m able to remember I can still love.


SOMETIMES

Sometimes I desire a soft shoulder to cry on, arms holding me tight, and tears gently wiped from my face,

Sometimes I might need a sound mind that thinks with systematic logic helping me process from a different perspective.

Sometimes I need the class clown giving me belly laughs until I’m doubled over forgetting all the pain.

Sometimes I require a hard dose of reality that knocks me upside my head to awaken me into a sobering reality that needs changing.

Sometimes I need lifted by dance and song, with melodies and beats soothing the savage beast hidden deep within.

Sometimes I need to find a quiet space to reflect alone and listen to God. To process from a place only quiet can speak.

Sometimes I need to witness the hand of God through the beauty of nature and all its wonders that illustrate the miracles of life surrounding me.

Sometimes when I’m feeling alone in this great big world and every mistake or consequence tells me I deserve nothing.

Sometimes, actually, all the time, I need prayer, simple, yet powerful, putting everything under my feet so the Lord can move through it all meeting my every need.

And while in my sometimes, I feel lost, confused, and rejected, The Lord steps up and reminds me He’s given me friends like each of you.

And THIS is the blessings in SOMETIMES


A tear’s a tear

A tear’s a tear

Each feel the same

Be them tears of joy

Or tears of pain

Tears are the release

Of what’s pent up inside

And the body doesn’t know

Nor can it decide

For even expressing

What feels wonderfully good

Stirs up emotions

Often misunderstood

Pain and struggles

Joy and grief

Are met in tears

As emotions release

The outward appearance

Says we must be sad

But every tear’s

Isn’t always bad

Tears are the steam

That let energy out

Like the boiling kettle

Of a teapot spout

Good or bad

Even in between

Tears release

What no eye has seen

They hurt, yet heal

Often misunderstood

Seen as painful

Yet can-do healing good

Years of tears

Pent up inside

Being released

So no longer reside

The pain of each

And every tear

Has introduced freedoms

As I confronted each fear

Tears are always

What they seem

They can unfold healing

The year haven’t seen

So do not worry

And do not fret

For God still catches

Each tear you shed

So, cry the cry

Release the pain

Let loose the tear

So healing is gained

Wish and a Prayer

“Some only see a weed; others see a wish” unknown

Could it be a WISH and a PRAYER are the same thing, just spoken in different languages of the heart.

Prayers

You can’t pray for patience without expect reasons to wait

You can’t ask for healing

Without feeling the wound

You can’t understand peace

Without knowing the war

You can’t embrace acceptance

Without having been rejection

You can’t appreciate wealth

Not having gone without

You don’t understand wisdom

Until you’ve been with a fool

You don’t comprehend laughter

Until you’ve cried real tears

You can’t cherish friends

Until you’ve been alone

You can’t appreciate quiet

Until you’ve been silenced

You won’t cherish a hug

Until no arms hold you

A tune holds no rhythm

If you don’t learn to dance

A song can’t be sung

Until imagination feels

You can’t celebrate freedom

Until you’ve felt bound

You can’t long for heaven

Until you’ve seen hell

Light won’t brighten your path

Until you’ve been in the dark

And

You can’t understand love

Without knowing hate

Everything has a purpose,

a reason and a rhyme

It all comes together when we give it time

I am Judy

I am Judy

I am everything

And nothing

You’d ever expect

I may surprise you

Or

Disappoint you

But

I will keep you on your toes.

I’m more open than most

And that

Is scary in itself

But I will not

Lie to look good for you

Or deny

Any of my flaws

I am an open book

And you can read me easily

You will know my tender side

But see my fury

In a heartbeat too

I am Judy

I am all I know how to be

And while sometimes disappointed

I’m still really glad

I’m me

Carnival Ride

Do you ever feel seasons in your life like it’s a carousel going round and round, up and down?   Just asking for things to slow down enough so you can jump off?  But then you find you landed you on a roller coaster and things sped up with twists and turns you didn’t see coming? …that about sums up my life right now.  Looking for ways to enjoy this ride even though it honestly scares the heck out of me.

The Lord has never promised us EASY, but a life with purpose and hope. Sometimes it’s the consequences of our choices that take us into chaotic life patterns. But in the end, when we seek the Lord, every up and down can be used for something worthwhile and our trial becomes our testimony, our brokenness, our blessings.

Yes, sometimes the carnival rides of life can feel more like a haunted mansion but trust the process and recognize when the Lord is telling to jump off the ride, change directions, or embrace the lesson to be used later.


Som

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